He knew what their doubts and insecurities were, and he targeted that. I don’t like the idea that my issues are worse than yours.
[Women of color] can be easier to manipulate because of their insecurities, and it really impacts and damages you when that happens. I just want to expand people’s ideas about what issues can come up for women of color.“I really do feel like everyone’s stories are valid, and I’m beginning to realize we all have more in common than we think. We don’t talk enough about that, and there is colorism that exists within African American culture and Indian culture and Chinese culture.
It can hurt because there are a lot of cultural implications that they don’t understand. They don’t get why I see myself as ugly when they’re constantly telling me that I’m beautiful. It’s just because I think, again, I’m worried about the cultural clash.
They don’t get that, growing up, I might have felt more ugly because I was constantly told that being dark is ugly.“My parents also did pressure me to work hard and make a lot of money. I do want to do a lot of great things, but I do have a lot of self-doubt, and it was built by a lot of gender and cultural anxieties.”Ooh! How are you feeling about the prospect of your partner meeting your parents? It’s strange that I have this anxiety, because our mutual friends have assured me that he’s dated women of other cultures before. But again, you still always worry what are they going to say? What if in the middle of the dinner he decides he doesn’t want to be with me because it’s too culturally different?
And it can really hinder love from happening — when you become so overly worried and anxious all the time.
And it’s something that’s another barrier to get through, and it can be really devastating.”I can imagine. It's a real thing happening between any two people.
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That’s hard to remember sometimes, because I’ve also met people who would rather put their head in the sand than understand what you’re going through — even friends.“It’s incredibly difficult, and sometimes I’d rather be alone than have to put up with that.
And it makes me sad because I know that there are a lot of women out there who have just given up because there are a lot of assholes who make them feel bad about themselves. I was in an abusive relationship previously with a long-term ex-boyfriend.
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