For example you can prioritise a daily talking time with your husband when you share how each of you are doing.
This should be time you have alone perhaps when the children are in bed and to make sure it is distraction free (with the computer and TV turned off).
The role of sovereign of the United Kingdom comes with many perks.
I still feel really unhappy about what he has done.
Up until this, I thought things were okay in our marriage, though of course we haven’t had much couple time with the demands of four children but this discovery has come as a bolt out of the blue.
However, creating this intimacy is hard work and much harder than the easy escapism of the internet or watching TV or even over-working or domestic chores.
Real intimacy is created in everyday communication, in the nitty-gritty of sharing a life together and in the hard work of resolving conflicts and accepting the other person as different to you.
9, when she became the longest-reigning monarch in British history.
She's marking the occasion in a typical way, by sticking to her royal duties.
When it finally is time to kick up her heels and celebrate her historic achievement, she'll be able to do so at one of her many homes.
The queen and crown are in possession of a massive number of properties around the United Kingdom, but only five see regular use by Elizabeth and her husband, Prince Philip.
There is a good chance of success for the two of you, if your husband accepts responsibility for what he has done and if the two of you are willing to work hard on improving your marriage.