I also went to Hong Kong last summer, and it really opened my eyes to my Chinese heritage.There is a difference between having yellow fever and simply being attracted to the physical features of people from a certain culture.As my boyfriend (who is a white male himself) puts it, “Every white guy wants to have sex with an Asian girl, but not all of them want to date one.” We all know the popular slang term “yellow fever”, which describes a (usually) white male who fetishizes Asian women.
As a young Asian woman, I am no stranger to feeling fetishized by white males.
During the year and a half I was on Tinder, white males of or around my age sent me messages such as “you’re my first Asian”, “Asa Akira”, “you look like an Asian goddess”, and best of all, “don’t Asian girls love white guys?
” I was born and raised in Toronto by my parents who were also raised in Toronto, so I was just as westernized as these guys were.
When I received messages from other people of colour, they didn’t even mention anything about the fact that I was Asian.
A sugar mama is an older woman who is looking for a younger man to date and is willing to have a financial agreement for the relationship. Likewise a sugar mama dating younger men receives a lot of benefits.
While some of these relationships are strictly talking and romantic, most are very sexual in nature too. Many young men would consider a rich sugar mama the all-inclusive package. Young men crave the chance to have a woman who knows what she is doing both in bed and in life.
If we’re being honest here, I was one of these girls at one point.
From the ages of 17 to 20, I was only interested in white guys.
She has the money to pay for most if not all of the young man’s financial needs.
This is as major part of the relationship for the young men involved in a sugar momma relationship. Going out partying, drinking late, making stupid jokes, and all of the other “immature” activities that young men like to engage in, are part of dating a sugar mama.
Some people may be skeptical of the financial part of the relationship but the young men that the sugar mama date benefit more than just with finances. A woman who knows what she is doing knows how to please the young man in very intimate ways.