And now that I've avoided your question for a page or two, let me answer with this: I often take women to do "regular" things with me. My old self would have shut up and zoned out---not this time. It ended at my place and we had an amazing double session.I'll take them to the grocery store to shop with me, out to the mall to pick things up, and down to the bookstore to buy a book. Then, notice how women DON'T CARE what you do together, as long as she's with you. She is now hooked more than ever even though she knows I am seeing other people. I have triggered the attraction mechanism and more importantly I know what I did to accomplish that. I know it worked out because I put the proper groundwork in place. ***QUESTION*** Dave, What does it mean when a woman says she wants to "work on herself" before she can have a relationship? I have been getting your emails for about 8 months now I belive and have read your book!just to be in your presence and have your attention. You don't need to wait until the third time out for coffee or tea. I was working one night and a female came up to one of my fellow bartenders to order something and while getting her drink... She stopped and turned towards me and laughed and hit me on the arm. I just pretended that she was one of my friends that I tease all the time and just called her on everything that she did. I couldn't believe that she was really eating this up!!! I got her e-mail and number and she has been like putty in my hands for the past three months. I should give him her e-mail address so that he can ask for his balls back, lol. ***QUESTION*** Hey Man, What has happened to women's standards? I am a good looking guy and I can't even get a phone number. No, I think that the problem is that you whine like a whipped Bitch. Now do yourself a favor and quit ACTING like a little girl, and DO SOMETHING about your situation. What has helped me is practicing on an old girlfriend.
They tell me how frustrated they are trying to date being in the "over 35" age group. So to any women who are in this demographic and feel like these women do about dating as an "over 35," here are five of the best ways to meet men if you are over 35. If You Believe It Then It's True: Do you remember the famous Henry Ford quote "Whether you think you can, or that you can't, you are usually right?
" I have found that you can meet amazing people anywhere and at any age. So many people listen to their friends or the monkey chatter in their own head telling them all the obstacles that stand in their way as a single woman over the age of 35. I don't listen to friends like this, because I find that many singles have attitudes that are just ridiculous.
Being able to listen on the way to work, whilst out doing chores, etc. I can feel the confidence building inside me, it's like my own personal coach.
The C&F doesn't come naturally to me at present so I've taken your advice and am using the internet as a 'woman simulator' in order to practice.
It happens VERY QUICKLY, if you know how to trigger it... ***SUCCESS STORY*** Dave-- I definitely have to give it to you. Your DYD dvd series has really changed my entire life. I was a little hesitant about buying your product... I wear nice clothes and drive a nice car and I can't get a single date. In order to get a date I will have to gain 200 lbs and have someone break my nose so I am ugly enough for some girl to date me. Trust me, I know quite a few guys who are NOT exactly the picture of "handsome"... So, I have not completely ended it for sex and companionship and she keeps me around for sex and emotional support.
and you don't need a lot of "date ideas" once you do. Anyway----to my amazing weekend: Saturday, I went out with the old girlfriend and busted on her and challenged her on many issues all night.
They love to buy into the negative, instead of the positive.
I hear so many people who live in Los Angeles tell me that Los Angeles is the worst place to date if you're a woman over 35. It's the biggest city in the country and there's no one to meet if you're a woman over 35? What happens is that people will manifest the things on which they focus.
Then take those sections and either write themdown or print them so you can review them and practice. And mostimportantly, DON'T STOP READING UNTIL YOU'RE DOING IT.
Success with women isn't like success with learning to use a lightswitch. Sometimes it seems as though all of your practice isn't makinga difference. Many people make the mistake of reading a book, and then saying"I know that stuff" before they've mastered the information in theirexperience. Keep reading and practicing and using it until you HAVE IT DOWN.
Success with women is more like success with learning to play amusical instrument. But if you keep at it, eventually you'll be playing songs.