For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you profess your faith and are saved.” If you really want to save your marriage after infidelity, the thing that will help the most is being a Christian.
Our nature is to be sinful people, and the “wages” of that sin–the consequence–is eternal separation from God. If you want, you can envision drowned people in a huge sea. Mark 10:6-9 “But at the beginning of creation God ‘made them male and female.
We are told our bodies belong to each other -AND- that we should not go without sex because we help each other with sexual self-control.
He was married for around 10yrs but was separated a year when we met.
I went to click on the folder where I knew the photo of him and her was and he told me not go into that because that’s of him and his ex. Theres also a folder with their last holiday, too, which I saw this morning. We’re building a house, getting engaged soon and will be trying for a baby shortly.
After all, the two of you are planning marriage and a family.
That does not sound like a guy who is not serious or who does not love you.
1 Corinthians “No temptation has seized you except what is common to man.
And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. If you had gotten from God what you deserve, you would be spiritually dead.Do not deprive each other except by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer.Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control”.These verses show us that moral sexuality is pleasing to God.Please note, however, that our sexuality is not self-centered–to get what we need–but rather SPOUSE-centered.Sorry I went on and I hope I get a reply but this is eating me up inside.