Breakups can show people's true colors, and unfortunately for this guy, his color is an ugly shade of dbag.
But there's a difference between hoping to run into your ex looking your very best and watching him eat his heart out, and actively reaching out to your ex to repeatedly say "HA! " Instead of inspiring jealousy, that move is more likely to inspire a) pity and b) a restraining order.
Case in point, a reader who wrote in with this question about her ex-boyfriend: Here's my five-step plan for dealing with this. Don't post statuses about his behavior on Facebook, even if they're vague ("So sick of people who can't let go! Don't complain about his contact to any mutual friends. If he's really bothering you, you might want to consider changing your phone number or email address, but that's a pretty extreme move that might be a big inconvenience for you.
Beautiful women may realise they can afford to pick and choose, he suggests.
They may also have the confidence to leave behind relationships that have run their course.
And generally, it's presumed that the beautiful Amazons among us (the eights, nines, and 10s) should only date each other -- while the "uglies" of the bunch (the twos, threes, and fours) must stick to their own Quasimodo kind.
But, every now and then, a couple pulls the switch off this genetic equilibrium.‘Attractive women might generally prefer short-term relationships.They’re better placed to move on.’It is also possible the relationships end due to jealous behaviour from the woman’s less photogenic partner.I hope that only step one is necessary, but you never know. He's trying to get a rise out of you, so the fastest way to get him to stop is to not let it have any effect on you. When he doesn't get the reaction he's hoping for, his first instinct may be to act even crazier. It should be a last resort if ignoring him for a while doesn't stop the behavior.Maintain the original plan, and eventually, it should fade out. Step Four: I certainly hope it never comes to this, but if at any point, you feel like he's actively harassing you or heaven forbid, threatening you, report it to the authorities.She's a lingerie model with beer-flavored nipples," except maybe to the Big Babies and Liars Police Force.