She called it off due to what she said was her not being ready to commit.
We are still friends and I call her every now and then.
Instead, he should focus on her, her life and her interests. Doing things this way will likely make a very big impression. The genuine TS -- one with the sensibilities of a GG -- won't likely be promoting herself as a shemale any more than a GG seeking a real relationship will be promoting herself as an "escort." That means, one who advertises herself as a shemale or shemale escort likely has a viewpoint not very compatible with developing a sound relationship. They aren't likely to believe that the average Joe asking for a simple date is serious.
He shouldn't treat her any differently than he would any other woman. And that could put the guy miles ahead of everyone else vying for her attention. This will impact on her sense of self-worth and esteem. TS's on hormones tend to cum repeatedly, much as GG's can, but without the usual male-type ejaculation. For most, the gateway to getting to know them is to first become a client."Great article.
A lot of guys who show interest in TS's are, in fact, bisexual. TS's tell me that most of the guys who contact them are, in fact, bisexual or bi-curious.
For the guys just seeking a sexual experience, there are plenty of shemale escorts available who will happily provide an exciting experience for a fee, without any danger of commitment. Use a search engine, search under keywords "shemale escorts (enter name of your city or state)" -- odds are you will find what you need.
She craves to be treated like any other woman, but she fully expects her date to ask inappropriate sex- and TS-related questions, because it happens all the time. She responds as a woman, therefore she regards herself as a woman. The pre-op TS will often adopt an image that is clearly, unmistakably feminine as she seeks to define herself as a woman. Interestingly enough, this approach to pleasing a man and adopting a feminine appearance is rather sadly lacking today among genetic women. I am actually going on a date with a very classy TS next week.
But being female for her is likely a whole lot more difficult than it is for the GG. Imagine how men she meets react when she tells them she is a TS who hasn't had the sex change. Probably she will not care to dress in a way that could be construed as masculine. The TS wants to immerse herself into something warmly and clearly feminine, which accounts for the clearly feminine clothing and heels. Finding a man who will accept her as a woman with a dick is very difficult indeed. When my girlfriend and I go off to the movies or a restaurant, she is almost always the only female in the place in a blouse and skirt, or a dress -- and both the men and women notice her. They want their women to dress in a more feminine manner too, and it isn't happening for them. A TS is very likely looking for a straight man, for it is a man who will make her feel like the woman she is, which is something to which most any GG can attest. There is often friction between the transgendered and gay communities. I hope to take her to a very nice dinner and just enjoy her company.
"Pre-Op" refers to the fact that she has not had sexual reassignment surgery (SRS), the sex-change surgery. A male-to-female transsexual is generally defined as a woman in a man's body.
Definitions: A "pre-op transsexual" is a woman in the wrong body, one who has breasts (through taking female hormones and/or breast implants), and a cock. A "non-op transsexual" means that the TS will not have SRS. I will be referring to both categories of TS as pre-op in this article, since it is a more widely used expression.1. The key thing to bear in mind here is: WOMAN in a man's body.
Reading the articles at this website will satisfy your curiosity about what a TS is, what she needs and how she thinks. Women love to be "taken" by a masculine man, since it is the act of erotic surrender that centers them, that makes them feel like "a real woman." Therefore, hardly any TS with the sensibilities of a woman will be looking to "top" a guy or will be looking for a guy who wants to suck her dick.