Based on that information, I would say that it’s not a lost cause. 🙂 Epilogue: I followed up a couple months later on this one to see how it panned out.
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An honorable person sets the record straight, so that person can move on with their life.” ― Shannon L. Until, men learn that their actions and their friends and families reactions can create a questionable doubt about how they feel, they will forever have to deal with the drama they create for themselves.” ― Shannon L.
My friend is having some trouble with the guy she’s been interacting with online and her depressing story just makes me very upset.
She manages to put me into a depressing mood as well because I feel like internet dating is such a taboo that it’s too good to be true if I do find someone.
What I bet is happening is that he wants you to reach out to him, initiate contact, etc.
because it makes him feel good and secure that you like him.
Never allow anyone to live with a false belief or unfounded hope about you. Why are these other people in your life acting like you care? They don't back up their words with actions that are not confusing or could be misinterrupted as something else.
Protect your reputation and be responsible for the wrong information spread about you. Women have a difficult time letting go because men don't communicate why at the level that women require.
I think there’s a lot to be said for choosing a person that very closely fits what you’re looking for. I basically said I do like you a lot, but I don’t know how you feel about me, I am willing to wait until you’re less busy, but I need to know what you think about me so I’ll know what to do.