This should be highlighting the question as to why you are’t sharing this with your own partner.
This friendship could be really helpful and give you insight into the other side of the story, or it could be with someone who will eventually take advantage of the problems.
10) Excitement about talking to them: Now we get to the more obvious signs, which are when you miss talking to someone or look forward to talking to them.
1) If it was the other way around: The first big rule is what would you think if your partner was having the same friendship with someone else? This is one of the best measuring methods of whether the friendship is inappropriate.
2) Opposite sex: I’m not saying don’t have friends with the opposite sex, but this is a good clue to their being a potential problem ;o) 3) Many years age difference: Having a close relationship with a girl many years younger, or a guy who is much older (and of course it can go vice versa in this new world of the Couga!
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I really don’t want to be upsetting her, but I’m not as capable of seeing what is obvious to her.
Do you have any tips for recognising when a friendship is just that and when in female terms it goes too far?
Plus, women have rules of engagement that we understand, like lionesses marking our territories, however men probably don’t notice these subtleties at all.
The question I got was: ‘I keep having friendships with women that seem to cross some kind of invisible line that my wife can see, but I don’t see.
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