For men in their 30s and above, consider using a “dress up” shot.Many women looking for a mature, established man want to know you can hang at a company event or cocktail party.
If she has a bad impression of you from the start, she's not clicking on your profile or responding to your message.
Here’s where it gets challenging – she’s forming opinions on just about every aspect of what she sees, including your posture, facial expression, and the clothes you’re wearing.
As Tinder’s sociologist Jessica Carbino put it, why risk disappointing her when she realizes you’re not the one she was hoping to meet?
In fact, researchers have proven that the “Ugly Friend Effect” not only exists, it works.
Here’s a comparison so you can see how signalling works: Which guy do you think she’d rather spend time with?
(Spoiler alert: it’s not the couch napper.)The secret lies in evolution – that's right, we're talking Darwin, survival of the fittest, alpha male theory.
And if you're not that hot, don't worry – keep reading for how to be magnetic and irresistible to women, no matter what you look like.
And since most schools don’t teach how to take a good Tinder photo, you’ll find plenty of examples of good picture ideas for guys you can use for inspiration. Studies have shown that women take about 1/10th of a second to form an impression of someone in a photograph.
If you're lucky enough to be a guy in his early 20s, good news – you can skip the suit shot – it might actually hurt your chances by making you seem too serious or even uptight.
But you can still convey success by choosing a picture of you at a nice club, restaurant, or other “luxurious” surroundings. You don’t want to look like you’re bragging, and survey data indicates that 81% of singles want to see casual photos showing your everyday life. But when you're choosing a photo, keep a sharp eye on the surroundings.
What you AREN'T is the guy in the background, watching the action go down around you. If you’re hiking with a small group of friends, you’d want to be the one leading the way.