MORE: How to make Men Chase You Without Playing Games Now I know there are going to be people reading this and saying things like, “Why all the games” or “If he’s a real man he’d blah blah blah” or “If he’s the right guy, you don’t need to worry about neediness, etc. This whole “game” thing doesn’t apply after two people get by their own crap. You can’t always expect that the other person is going to be in exactly the place mentally that you want them to be in.You do, however, have tremendous power over how you think and act.
If I were in his position, I would continue acting in the way that has you chasing. He tried it one way, it probably felt terrible to him and ultimately got him rejected.
So based on that experience, he would probably make a conscious, willful effort not to get back into that position with you again. With that said, here’s a few things to consider: First, guys don’t chase things that they don’t think they have to chase.
One person may be from a conservative Caucasian family who does not believe in public displays of affection while the other is from Mexico and has no trouble showing affection anywhere at all.
In situations like this a compromise may become necessary.
There needs to be hope and signs that we have a shot with the girl and that being with her would be incredible, even though it won’t be easy.
So what’s my clear and simple advice on having a guy chase you (or having a guy chase you again)?
They are very tender and sentimental and will not hesitate to hold hands, hug and kiss in public.
In some other cultures this is frowned upon and so for some couple who are in a mixed relationship (Mexican to Non-Mexican) this could cause a little bit of a conflict.
Mexican Flirtation Just about every lady who lives in close proximity to a Mexican community has heard the yelling, whistling and shouting that is sent their way by the Mexican men as they walk by.